It is worth a try if you want children, I know miscarriages tear your heart out. But after 3 of them I had two healthy boys. I am miserable when pregnant every time, but we made it through. Be kind to yourself, it's a big bunch of hormones changing, body changing, stress so give yourself a break...kkc

When I lost my second and third pregnancy I didn't know I had lupus after learning about my disease I didn't have a pregnancy experience yet I'm thinking about pregnancy planning but I'm at a loss.

You know, I am sure I had lupus while pregnant, but I was diagnosed until after. I know I had antiphospholipid because I had 4 miscarriages, but that definitely went undiagnosed. I loved my pregnancies. I loved being pregnant. Most wonderful time of my life. Two of mine I was in my 20's, well the majority of them. I had a lot of miscarriages. I was also very active and very healthy. I worked out, owned a dance studio, and very fit. With my last, I was 37. It was a harder pregnancy. I was older but I still didn't have any troubles. I was always very healthy and fit. I have always eaten healthy and worked out. But then again, I had a stroke at 38. There are never any answers, I guess.