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Decatur, GA

Some of you may not be aware of the Spoon Theory. @A MyLupusTeam Member mentioned it in a post. I thought it was important to share an image describing it. It i a good way to learn how to manage your days to avoid overdoing it.

July 14, 2024
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Members embraced the Spoon Theory as a relatable framework for explaining chronic illness fatigue to themselves and others, with many sharing... Read more

Members embraced the Spoon Theory as a relatable framework for explaining chronic illness fatigue to themselves and others, with many sharing how they adapt the concept to their own lives through metaphors like energy bank accounts or simply tracking functional hours in a day. Several members found it especially valuable for helping loved ones understand their limitations, with one member describing how she used spoon language with her daughter from childhood and now receives that same compassionate check-in as an adult. A recurring theme was gratitude for having language to describe invisible struggles, along with practical energy management tips like taking liquid B12, vitamin D3, and using medication strategically during times when alertness is essential.

A MyLupusTeam Member
July 14, 2024
A MyLupusTeam Member

Well the last spoon can get crossed off because that drained all the other spoons.

July 14, 2024
A MyLupusTeam Member

When my daughter was a little girl. I wasn't sure how to explain to her how I was feeling. So I began saying to her. Mommy is running out of spoons and need to rest. And now she's all grown up. And she will say have you ran out of spoons? If so you need to rest. The spoon theory actually helped her understand til this day.

July 17, 2024
A MyLupusTeam Member

I honestly am all for the spoon theory. I think it is a great visual for others that have problems understanding what those of us go through on a daily basis.

July 17, 2024
A MyLupusTeam Member

Thank you everyone for putting a name on energy conservation. As a 71 year old with Lupus "Spoon Theory" is vital.

July 15, 2024

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