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How does lupus affect sex and intimacy?

Lupus and its treatments can impact your sex life in several ways, both emotionally and physically. Common challenges include:

- Fatigue
- Weight gain
- Self-esteem issues
- Body image concerns
- Vaginal dryness
- Mouth sores
- Chronic pain

Any of these factors can affect your sex drive Show Full Answer

How does lupus affect sex and intimacy?

Lupus and its treatments can impact your sex life in several ways, both emotionally and physically. Common challenges include:

- Fatigue
- Weight gain
- Self-esteem issues
- Body image concerns
- Vaginal dryness
- Mouth sores
- Chronic pain

Any of these factors can affect your sex drive or ability to engage sexually.

Communication is key when discussing intimacy with your partner. Using "I statements" when talking about your needs and preferences can help keep conversations productive and focused on your feelings.

Remember, sex isn't the only way to maintain intimacy. Cuddling, massages, foreplay, or spending quality time together can strengthen your relationship during times when sex is less frequent. As a MyLupusTeam member shared, "My husband and I have been married for 36 years. We both have had illnesses along the way that have made sex impossible for a few months at a time. If someone really loves you, they will love you in sickness and in health."

If sexual issues are causing ongoing arguments or distance in your relationship, consider seeking help from a couples counselor or sex therapist. They can provide professional guidance, and addressing emotional, mental, or physical health factors may help resolve what's holding you back.

 AI-generated responses are not a substitute for medical advice. These services are not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition or disease. Always ask your doctor about specific health concerns.

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