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4 weeks ago, I found out from primary doctor that I have stage 4 kidney failure. I’m struggling with what food to eat to maintain my kidneys functions. I was diagnosed with having Lupus since I was 17-18 years of age and have been experiencing many flare-up and gone through so many different kinds of medications to treat Lupus. Years of on Steroids, methodroxide, ibruprophene, and a hose of other medications which I’ve lòng forgot about their names. I have lived through 4 hips replacement and… read more

May 14
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A MyLupusTeam Member

Having an autoimmune disease and/or disorder is eerily similar in so many of us. For so long most people didn't even know about it. There was not even an ANA test available in 1972! It's only recently (relatively speaking) that SLE and other autoimmune maladies have been more openly and objectively brought to light. Feels good to be seen and obtain validation that I'm not lazy or crazy....Just sick sometimes.
Well, I feel better!
Thanks for hearing me
A. Proeschel
Surprise, Arizona

May 15
MyLupusTeam

What a journey you've been on — 40+ years of living with lupus, and still showing up. That takes real strength. You are absolutely not alone in this.

Many MyLupusTeam members have shared similar experiences. One member wrote: "Because of lupus I am stage 3 kidney disease with a half of a kidney, but that is ok, and pain all Show Full Answer

What a journey you've been on — 40+ years of living with lupus, and still showing up. That takes real strength. You are absolutely not alone in this.

Many MyLupusTeam members have shared similar experiences. One member wrote: "Because of lupus I am stage 3 kidney disease with a half of a kidney, but that is ok, and pain all over my body some days I can't even get out of bed." Another shared: "I was in the hospital for 3 weeks and during that time, lupus also attacked my kidneys. So the diagnosis was lupus nephritis, also with having antiphospholipid syndrome." Heart complications are also very common with lupus. Conditions like pericarditis (inflammation around the heart lining) affect around 25% of people with lupus. One MyLupusTeam member shared: "I have heart problems as a result of lupus. I was having trouble breathing, and my doctor ordered a cardiac MRI with contrast, which showed inflammation around the lining of the heart."

Cardiovascular disease is actually the leading cause of death among people with lupus, so your open heart surgery history makes monitoring heart health especially important going forward. For stage 4 kidney failure, diet really matters. Doctors typically recommend:

- Reducing sodium (salt) to help manage blood pressure
- Limiting protein intake to reduce strain on the kidneys
- Cutting back on saturated fats
- Reducing alcohol consumption

It's worth asking your doctor for a referral to a renal dietitian — they specialize in kidney-friendly eating and can create a plan tailored specifically to your situation, especially given your lupus history. Between 10% and 30% of people with lupus nephritis do progress to kidney failure, so knowing the warning signs is important. Contact your doctor right away if you experience:

- Fatigue or muscle cramps
- Nausea or confusion
- Persistent itchiness
- Shortness of breath

These can be signs that kidneys need urgent attention. Staying closely connected with your care team right now is really key.

May 14

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