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Martin, TN

My original appt was June 1, waited for 3 months to get it. It was postponed to June 29 because the lab lost my bloodwork They postponed that appt because they are remodeling. They wanted to do a video appt, but I'm a new patient and need to be seen in person, so now it is postponed to July 16. I have been waiting since March for an appt. My kidneys hurt and I am tired of the wait. I'm going to a different location this first time, then go to the one getting remodeled.

June 26
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Yes, this waiting is very frustraing. I remember waiting to see my Rheumatologist and the Lung doctor. I tried to do things to be healthy like eating right and doing my deep breathing exercises, no stress (giving it over to God), and staying out of the sun. I also started taking my vital signs every day and checking my urine for protien so I would know where I stood during an acute phase. I advocated for myself like you did in getting a better appointments. I had my list of questions (I often asked my lupus team the questions) then asked the doctor. I focused on what I could do to help me so I did not feel helpless and this took a lot of the stress and worry off of me as I watched my diet more closely as I was writing it down what I ate and check my vital signs so I could make adjustments and I prayed a whole bunch too. I prayed without ceasing and God helped me. I am praying for you Lisa and I know you can do this. God bless.

June 26
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That is genuinely frustrating, and the concern is completely valid. Waiting since March while dealing with kidney pain is a lot to carry — and the repeated delays make it even harder.

Going to a different location for the July 16 appointment is a smart move. Getting seen in person as a new patient is important, especially Show Full Answer

That is genuinely frustrating, and the concern is completely valid. Waiting since March while dealing with kidney pain is a lot to carry — and the repeated delays make it even harder.

Going to a different location for the July 16 appointment is a smart move. Getting seen in person as a new patient is important, especially with kidney involvement and lupus. While waiting, here are some things worth considering:

- Contact your rheumatologist now — they know your full history and can monitor kidney-related symptoms, order bloodwork, or adjust treatment while you wait for the nephrology appointment
- Track your symptoms — note things like swelling in hands or legs, changes in how often you urinate, fatigue levels, and any pain, so you have a clear picture to share at the appointment
- Watch for warning signs — if kidney pain worsens significantly, or you notice severe swelling, reduced urination, or feel very unwell, seek urgent care or an ER rather than waiting

Kidney involvement with lupus can progress, so staying in close contact with your rheumatologist in the meantime is really the key safety net here.

June 26

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