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February 22, 2025
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It's completely normal to experience changes in libido with lupus. Several factors can affect your sex drive, including fatigue, chronic pain, body image changes, and even some lupus treatments. You're definitely not alone in experiencing these challenges.

The key to maintaining intimacy is open, honest communication with Show Full Answer

It's completely normal to experience changes in libido with lupus. Several factors can affect your sex drive, including fatigue, chronic pain, body image changes, and even some lupus treatments. You're definitely not alone in experiencing these challenges.

The key to maintaining intimacy is open, honest communication with your partner. Try using "I statements" when discussing your needs and feelings. Remember that intimacy isn't just about sex - exploring other forms of connection like cuddling, massage, or quality time together can help maintain closeness during periods when traditional intimacy is challenging. If sexual intimacy continues to be a concern, consider speaking with your healthcare provider. They can help address specific symptoms like vaginal dryness or pain that might be affecting your relationship. A couples counselor or sex therapist could also provide valuable strategies for maintaining a fulfilling intimate relationship while managing lupus symptoms.

Many couples find ways to maintain strong, loving relationships despite these challenges. As one MyLupusTeam member shared after 36 years of marriage, when someone truly loves you, they'll stick by you through the ups and downs of health challenges.

February 22, 2025

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