Connect with others who understand.

  •   Learn from expert-reviewed resources
  •   Real advice from people who’ve been there
  •   People who understand what you’re going through
Sign Up Log In
Powered By
Real members of MyLupusTeam have posted questions and answers that support our community guidelines, and should not be taken as medical advice. Looking for the latest medically reviewed content by doctors and experts? Visit our resource section.
A MyLupusTeam Member asked a question 💭
Jonesboro, AR

Horrible pain

June 27, 2025
 · 
Be the first to react
MyLupusTeam

Living with lupus can significantly impact intimacy and sexual relationships. Common challenges that may cause pain or discomfort during sex include:

• Chronic pain
• Fatigue
• Vaginal dryness
• Mouth sores

It's important to know these symptoms are normal with lupus, and there are ways to maintain intimacy despite these Show Full Answer

Living with lupus can significantly impact intimacy and sexual relationships. Common challenges that may cause pain or discomfort during sex include:

• Chronic pain
• Fatigue
• Vaginal dryness
• Mouth sores

It's important to know these symptoms are normal with lupus, and there are ways to maintain intimacy despite these challenges. Here are some helpful approaches to maintain intimacy:

• Have open communication with your partner about your needs
• Use "I statements" when discussing preferences and limitations
• Consider alternative forms of intimacy like cuddling or massage
• Plan intimate moments during times when symptoms are less severe
• Consult with healthcare providers if pain persists

Remember, if someone truly loves you, they'll understand and work with you through these challenges. Many couples successfully navigate intimacy while managing lupus symptoms.

June 27, 2025

Related Questions

View All
A MyLupusTeam Member asked a question 💭
Naperville, IL

A MyLupusTeam Member asked a question 💭
westchester, NY