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Yes, it's more like I end up in the hospital. My muscles act like I have never moved in my life. The spasms,the pain and the recovery make it a chore than something beautiful between two people. It's sad, and I have tried I think almost everything from pillows to different positions. All I can say is sometimes it doesn't have to include penetration. I say listen to your body and don't be embarrassed to talk to your wife,husband or partner about what's is going on and how you feel about it. We are to old to be embarrassed but people still are so approach the matter how YOU feel but also take your wife,husband or partners attitude about the subject into consideration. Some people are just not comfortable speaking on this subject even to their husband, wife or partner.
Yes, this is something others with lupus have experienced. Flare-ups can be triggered by physical exertion, and sexual activity is no exception. The body's response to physical stress can activate the immune system in ways that may spark a flare.
A few key factors that might connect sexual activity to flares include:
I am so sorry that you all are experiencing this. Please reach out to your rheumatologist and or ob-gyn doctor.
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