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A MyLupusTeam Member asked a question 💭
Montgomery County, MD

I am in pain all the time, and that is what keeps me awake often. On the rare times I am not in a lot of pain, I still can not sleep. I even take medicine to sleep, and even with that, I still have about 3-4 nights where I hardly sleep at all. Does anyone experience this?

June 28
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You are absolutely not alone in this. Sleep struggles are one of the most talked-about topics among people living with lupus. Many MyLupusTeam members share very similar experiences — some can't fall asleep, others fall asleep but wake up shortly after, and some just lie awake for hours even without intense pain.

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You are absolutely not alone in this. Sleep struggles are one of the most talked-about topics among people living with lupus. Many MyLupusTeam members share very similar experiences — some can't fall asleep, others fall asleep but wake up shortly after, and some just lie awake for hours even without intense pain.

One MyLupusTeam member shared, "I haven't had a good night's sleep for years — four to five hours is the best I can ask for. Pain keeps me awake." Another said they don't have trouble falling asleep, but simply can't stay asleep. The pain-sleep connection with lupus can become a frustrating cycle:

- Pain makes it hard to sleep
- Poor sleep makes pain feel worse
- Worse pain makes the next night even harder

Even when pain isn't the main culprit, the body and mind can still struggle to settle into restful sleep. Some things that MyLupusTeam members and research suggest may help include:

- Applying heat to painful joints (one member swears by an electric blanket)
- Keeping a consistent sleep and wake schedule — even on weekends
- Limiting screen time before bed
- Trying meditation, herbal tea, or a warm bath to wind down
- Talking to a therapist, as stress and anxiety can actually increase pain

It's really worth bringing up the ongoing sleep issues with your rheumatologist, especially since sleep medicine alone isn't fully doing the job. They may be able to adjust your pain management plan, which could make a real difference at night.

June 28
A MyLupusTeam Member

I struggle with sleep because of pain and getting up to go to the bathroom. I do take medication to help but will likely go off if because I’m not sure it helping that much. I have found a lot of benefit from using a helight light. It is red and it fades over 28 minutes and I rarely have to do it more than once. You can also use it if you can’t get back to sleep. They use this in space and have found it to be incredibly good.

June 28
A MyLupusTeam Member

No it doesn’t wake my partner at all. That’s the beauty of it

June 29
A MyLupusTeam Member

Does it affect your partner? I can imagine my partner waking up when I turn on a red light.

June 29
A MyLupusTeam Member

@A MyLupusTeam Member That often happens to me too. I find that a cup of organic Hibiscus tea before bed helps me to relax. . It has no caffeine which I like. Hope you can get some sleep tonight, in the meantime, have a wonderful and relaxing Sunday 💜

June 28

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