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She did a blood test early on and still does not believe the diagnosis that both my PCP and my kidney doctor proved that I have it. She's very difficult to work with. In my area there are very few rheumatologists. When I report a troubling symptom she just looks at me. I don't know what to do. Also, I can't have chocolate, sugar, milk because it plays havock with my Lupus. I can't get good help with my medical issues. Any thoughts?

October 3
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A MyLupusTeam Member

The way our medical providers ignore and belittle our concerns is concerning and beyond frustrating and makes me feel hopeless at times. I am on my second rheumatologist, and I drive an hour for my visits. The only reason I have not switched to a third RA doctor is because I am in the middle of a study, and even with me being in a lupus study, he still ignores my concerns. A big one is when I told him that my quality of life has diminished; I received no reply. I am not going to stop advocating for myself; I just have to be persistent.

October 3
A MyLupusTeam Member

You may have to travel further for a supportive doctor. No help doesn’t help. Keep strong.

October 3
A MyLupusTeam Member

Look into programs in your area for transportation. I hope you find something.

October 3
A MyLupusTeam Member

Sending you hugs.

October 3
A MyLupusTeam Member

Check whether there is a Mayo Clinic campus or a university hospital in a nearby city. As @A MyLupusTeam Member said, you may have to travel farther to find a more supportive rheumatologist.

October 3

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