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A MyLupusTeam Member asked a question 💭
Newark, NJ

Me nd One Of My Family Members Got Into An Argument... Which Is Very Normal People Aren't Always On Good Terms... So In The Argument She Says To Me "You Sick Bitch You Need To Just Die"... Since Then I No Longer Acknowledge Her As Part Of My Family nd I Treat Her As If She Was A Stranger On The Street... My Family Keeps Calling Me Childish nd Petty nd Saying The We're Family Even Though I Have Decided That She's No Longer Considered My Family nd I Will Never Acknowledge Her As Family Again

July 4, 2016
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A MyLupusTeam Member

Kill her with kindness.

July 4, 2016
A MyLupusTeam Member

It was very hurtful and mean what she said to you... but I want you to think about yourself and your health... holding animosity in your heart only brings unneeded stress in your life, you know what street does to your body... find a way to forgive her for your own well being, if you choose not to immediately speak to her until you know you have forgiven her that's ok... for you peace of mind and health pls don't hold that ugliness in you heart.. love conquers all!!#

July 4, 2016
A MyLupusTeam Member

I say cut ties... remember stress can cause flare ups... you don't need a toxic person like that in your life, sick or healthy...

September 20, 2016
A MyLupusTeam Member

@A MyLupusTeam Member good for you!! :D We already have so much on our plate, like lupus and waking up every day, you do not need people who don't understand... or people who wish you dead! :D

September 23, 2016
A MyLupusTeam Member

@A MyLupusTeam Member thank you...i have cut her loose nd my life has been so much better since ive made that choice

September 20, 2016

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