if you are becoming a nurse but really don't want to be a nurse. then don't. I have been a nurse for 48 years and it is something I shall never regret. I have been dx. with SLE for 25 years and am pain constantly. I am no longer able to practice nursing because it is too difficult to give my all for my patients, my coworkers an myself. Nursing is a very demanding profession both physically and mentally. If it is something you already know you do not want to do then save the money and frustration of going to school for it. More than anything else Nursing is something of a calling, not just a career. There is a spiritual aspect of it an your heart has to be in it or you will be unhappy and not be able to fully be there for your patient.

I didnt work for a few years and went back to nursing. I was able to do it when I did more administrative nursing things. The past i months, I have been doing physical nursing. Passing meds, hands on care....I had not really had any lupus symptoms that kept me out of work until I started physical nursing. Its the being up and moving 8-10 hours at a time. I was in school to go back for my BSN, but have come to the realization that I need to find more administrative type nursing work. Thats the reality. Its not saying you cant do it; its just finding something thats fulfilling, and doesnt create unnessary stress and strain on the body. Thankfully, I was able to get a new nursing job that allows me to stay at home. This recent flare was pretty intense and I know that it was directly related to the physical nature of nursing. My body is wrecked.

I think nursing will be too hard on you. Standing, lifting, bathing patients will hurt you. Have you thought of something to do with govt work. They have loads of positions where you can even be in a wheelchair. You have to remember that lupus is a lifetime disease. You will get flareups at any time. I believe you need a job where you can sit and stand to do your job. Where you get great medical benefits. Maybe speak to a work councillor and see what they advise you. Good luck dear. ❤️

I am a nurse currently working 40-45 hour work weeks but have an understanding boss and can get me a replacement in event of a horrible flare. Only diagnosed a year now no major flare causing serious time off 2-3 days max. I work in wound care department mon-fri.. also invested in short term and long term disability just in case.

I did with no major problems other than my feet going numb while running. It eventually passed. The exercise actually helped. Maybe try being a probation/parole officer or a sheriff deputy working in the jail. Don't give up on your dreams because of this diagnosis. I've been in law enforcement for 17 years. Each day is different. Best wishes.